He’s always really nice to my friends, so they don’t know what’s going on.

“He’s always really nice to my friends when they bump into him in the street and he’s polite to my family on the phone, so they don’t know what’s going on either. My family don’t live near us. He wanted us to move to a new area, so I don’t have much contact with them now. When I do speak to them on the phone, he’s always making signs for me to hurry up, so I’m sure they think I don’t want to talk to them.”