Where to get support
You are not alone. If you or someone you know needs help – there is support available now. Do not wait to report a crime against you or seek help due to the ongoing pandemic.
0800 027 1234
Scotland’s Domestic Abuse Helpline
To speak to trained helpline workers 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
Anyone can call the helpline. They will help you regardless of age, gender, disability, sexual orientation, nationality or background.
A confidential translation service is available.
999
Police Emergency
To report immediate danger of harm
101
Local Police
For non-emergency police contact
When calling 999, if you can’t speak, listen, and respond to instructions, make yourself heard by making a noise or tapping.
Or, if you’re using a mobile phone, once prompted by the automated system by pressing 55 (the automated Silent Solution system).
0800 027 1234
Scotland’s Domestic Abuse Helpline
To speak to trained helpline workers 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
Anyone can call the helpline. They will help you regardless of age, gender, disability, sexual orientation, nationality or background.
A confidential translation service is available.
What happens when you call the helpline?
- Firstly, you’ll be given some recorded information about the helpline. You will then be given three options – press 1 if you are a woman or calling on behalf of a woman, press 2 if you are a man or calling on behalf of a man, and press 3 for non-binary and other gender identities.
- We will always listen to and believe you.
- Your call will always be answered by a trained specialist, who understands the dynamics of domestic abuse and forced marriage.
- We will give you space to talk and work to understand your concerns, without judging you, and without trying to tell you what you should do, or pushing you into any decisions, for example reporting to the police.
- We will provide you with relevant information and support, depending on what you need, and will let you know about other services that may be able to help.
- We will treat you fairly and respectfully.
- We won’t share what you tell us, unless we believe that we have to in exceptional circumstances. For example, if we believed that someone’s life was in immediate danger, or that a child or vulnerable adult was at risk of serious harm.
- We can speak to you in your preferred language through a confidential interpreting service. We will ask you to hold or arrange to call you back so we can get an interpreter on the line.
- If you have a hearing or speech difficulty, you can call us using a text relay service such as Relay UK. British Sign Language (BSL) users can contact us through Contact Scotland BSL.
Please note: for safety, we need express permission from an individual in order for us to call them; we do not accept requests to call someone else. If you are concerned about a friend, family member etc., you can pass on our details so they can contact us themselves. You are also welcome to call us yourself to discuss your concerns.
Response times
- We will always try to answer as soon as possible, whether you choose to get in touch by phone, web chat, or email. Phone and web chat are the quickest ways to reach us, but at busy times your call or web chat may be held in a queue. If you are phoning us, you will have the option to leave us a voicemail or wait on the line.
- If you choose to leave us a voicemail, we will call you back within two hours or as near as possible to another time that you have requested.
- We will answer emails to the helpline as soon as possible and within a maximum of two days.
Call 0800 027 1234
or visit sdafmh.org.uk
You can call Scotland’s Domestic Abuse Helpline 24 hours a day, 7 days a week
999
Police Emergency
To report immediate danger of harm
101
Local Police
For non-emergency police contact
When calling 999, if you can’t speak, listen, and respond to instructions, make yourself heard by making a noise or tapping.
Or, if you’re using a mobile phone, once prompted by the automated system by pressing 55 (the automated Silent Solution system).
Call 999 in case of an emergency
Call 101 for non-emergency police contact
You can call the police 24 hours a day, 7 days a week
What happens when you speak to the police?
The police will help and protect you when you report domestic abuse.
They will:
- put you in touch with a specially-trained domestic abuse officer and support agencies
- help you feel safe – taking you to a refuge, or making your own home secure
- get you medical treatment if you’re injured
The police will need to gather the details of your story and investigate fully.
They will:
- interview you – you can ask for a female or male officer
- detain your partner/ex-partner, interviewing them if a crime is established
- advise you on your next steps – and what’s happening with your partner/ex-partner
- with your permission, refer you to local aid services for practical and emotional support
With enough evidence, the police will arrest your partner/ex-partner.
If it’s likely your case will result in criminal charges, you’ll be introduced to a Victim Information and Advice (VIA) officer who will:
- keep you updated on the progress of your case
- give you information about the criminal justice system
- tell you what steps have been taken to protect you
- put you in touch with support organisations who can help you
Tell the police immediately if you feel you’re being harassed or intimidated for having reported domestic abuse.
Support in court
If you’re asked to give court evidence, you’ll be entitled to special measures like:
- giving evidence via a live TV link
- screens which stop you having to see someone else involved in the case
- a supporter staying with you while you give evidence
You can ask for information about your case at any point.
You have rights to support, information and advice at all stages of the criminal justice system – from reporting the crime to going to court.
Can I drop charges at a later date?
No. Once the details of the crime have been passed to the Procurator Fiscal, it’s up to them to decide whether to proceed with the case. You can let the Procurator Fiscal know if you have any concerns.
You can also call these specialist numbers:
0800 5999 247
Karma Nirvana
Support for victims of domestic abuse, forced marriage and honour based abuse
0131 624 7270
FearFree
Support for victims of domestic abuse who identify as male or from the LGBT+ Community
08088 010 789
Scottish Women’s Rights Centre
Free and confidential legal information for women affected by gender based violence such as domestic abuse
0131 556 9302
0141 552 6540
Saheliya
Mental health and well-being support for black, minority ethnic, asylum seeker, refugee and migrant women and girls
Are you hurting the one you love? – how to get help
Have you been violent or abusive? Do you think you have a problem controlling your anger with your partner? If you are an abuser or have abused in the past and recognise that in order to change your behaviour you need help there are services available.
The following organisations may be able to assist you:
0808 802 4040
Respect
A helpline for anyone concerned about their violence and/or abuse towards a partner or ex-partner